Sunday, September 23, 2012

College Wake-Up Calls

There are many things I wish someone would have told me when I was a freshman starting my first year at Ohio Northern. Like most students, I assumed I would be getting the experience I saw on my favorite television shows (e.g. Greek was a big hit for me). Yeah, that didn't happen. Don't get me wrong, some of the experiences matched my high expectations--but overall, there are many things I wish I would have done differently. 

Things I wish someone would have told me as a freshman: 


  • Homework doesn't do itself. I tried doing that whole, "If it is due tomorrow, I'll do it tomorrow." Yeah...I am still definitely guilty of this at times (okay, so it happens more than I think it should), but I wish I would have started a better habit when college had first started.
  • If there is an exam on Monday, you shouldn't go out and stay up all night both nights. At the time, you are thinking "yes, I definitely can...I am young and in college," and I am here to tell you--DON'T DO IT! It is seriously one of the dumbest things I have done in college. 
  • Not every boy is Prince Charming. When a boy texts you at 1 a.m. asking to hang out, I am here to tell you that he doesn't just want to sit and talk about your "awesome" lives. If he asks you to hang out during the day or early evening, then I would say this is okay, but otherwise--I'd stay safe and sound in your room.
  • You don't need to join every single organization to be a "well-rounded" student. At one point, I was in over 9 or 10 organizations. That was really not a good idea for me. Some students can pull it off (which is awesome and I have no idea how they do it), but if you have a heavy class load or have a problem with time management, I wouldn't suggest you go sign up for every organization that gives you treats at Welcome Fest. 
  • When people ask you if you want off their email list, don't ignore them. If you want to be on an organization or group's email list, definitely just keep doing what you are doing. I know from experience that I have gotten tons of emails for organizations that I have no interest in being a part of. Email them and kindly tell them you want to be taken off their emailing list--it will make your email less cluttered. 
  • Walking across campus doesn't count as a work out. Yes, Kinghorn is really far and inconvenient, but so are those extra pounds. I gained like 10 pounds my freshman year and I am so mad about it! If I would have just tried a little harder to get like 30 minutes of working out time a day, I would have been just fine. So try to work out!
  • Be careful with your food decisions and meal times. We are college students and we are always trying to eat whenever we can because we are always so busy. Try to get a schedule going for certain days of the week so you aren't making multiple late night Taco Bell trips in a three-day time span. 

There is a lot more I am still learning today and I am a senior. I am still guilty of doing some of these things, but breaking habits is tough stuff. I am letting you guys know so that you don't make the same mistakes I did. 

What habits have you found hard to break? What advice would you give to an incoming freshman? Share it with me!


PS. Wearing a mustache in the cafeteria WILL get you a ton of weird looks...

1 comment:

  1. Ashley, I would have to agree with all of your major points here. I know as a senior, I still do homework and study last minute. I chuckled when I saw the point about working out. I have found that to be one of the hardest habits to break. I say to myself that I'll work out tomorrow and then tomorrow comes and I never go. Or I say that I'll work out starting Monday but then my Monday is hectic and it's Thursday before I know it. I think that getting in a habit of working out, even if it is only walking for 30 minutes, is a great habit. It will make you more healthy, give you more energy and relieve stress!

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